Need to vent

[BlueBay]

@Former-Member are you around?

[BlueBay]

Is anyone around?  @grayhorn @tyme @tyme @BPDSurvivor @Paperdaisy @Emelia8 @Shaz51 

@moderator 

im starting to feel panicky 

I’m not coping 

[Former-Member]

Hey @BlueBay, I'm over here and pulling up a chair...what's happening for you right now?

[hanami]

Hey @BlueBay 

What's happening for you today?

sending hugs

hanami 💮

[BlueBay]

I can’t calm down @Former-Member 

I’m in a state of panic fearing the worse 

if we don’t sell our home in a few weeks then it’s going off the market 

it’s been 3 1/2 months and not one offer 

normally houses in our area sell within 7-10 days!!!  We left it 6 months too late. And now with interest rates going up - it’s harder. 

Also which means we have to pay the agent and lawyer fees 

but we have NO extra money 

this is all my fault we’re in this financial mess 

I feel so guilty 

I just want to cry 

[Emelia8]

Yes @BlueBay I'm here too.  Not long home after GP appointment quickly followed by day rehab.  Feeling sore and exhausted.  Just made a pot of tea and grabbed a biscuit. Realised I hadnt eaten since 8am. Oops 😱 I will get in trouble from my psych tomorrow and dietitian next Tuesday. 

Come and sit with me and we can share a chat over a nice hot cuppa.  You too @Former-Member @hanami 😄

[BlueBay]

Thanks @Emelia8 @I’m sorry to bother you. You have your own stuff you’re going through. 

im scared our financial situation is so bad 

I don’t know what to do 

I can’t think 

[hanami]

Thank you @Emelia8 

here with you too 

💮

[Former-Member]

Straight out the gate I'm going to ask whether this is something you might like to chat with the counsellors about @BlueBay? The drop-in service is open till 10pm tonight if you decide you would like a trained counsellor to walk through this with you: 1800 187 263


If you'd feel better to get some friendly support you are of course welcome to chat through things here too, just serving up a smorgasbord of support options for you 😊

I also just wanted to say that you should in no way blame yourself for the situation with your house – without wanting to inflame your concern, it's legitimately a problem faced nationally at the moment so this isn't a you thing @BlueBay.

[BlueBay]

hi @Former-Member 

I will try to chat online later after dinner. 
If I didn’t have a mental illness or get abused as a child I wouldn’t be the way I am now. I have had days off work last year because I wasn’t well but got sacked. I’m still too unwell to even look for work let alone go to work. 

that’s why I feel guilty because I can’t and don’t contribute to our finances.